Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Bah humbug! Who killed the holiday spirit?

Bah humbug! Who killed the holiday spirit? We’re in the middle of the holiday season and there hasn’t been any snow, temperatures have been more spring-like than late autumn or winter. Complaints, or discussion, about what is the appropriate way to wish someone well this season have been very subdued. Is it really supposed to be “happy holidays” or merry christmas”? Duh? Children don’t even appear to be excited. Is Santa Claus actually dead? Finally?

The Christmas season really is the great American holiday. This is when we truly celebrate our culture. We are capitalists after all, and what says “capitalism” better than Christmas? The Fourth of July? Forget that!

This is our season to be jolly. Let the cash registers ring, hum, and ding! Alright, it’s true – malls are really disgusting, impersonal, torture. Hell, you can’t even find a table in the coffee shop in Barnes and Noble these days. Besides, as conscientious Americans, isn’t it our responsibility to the economy – to our fellow Americans – to buy stuff all year round? Stuff is proof that we are successful and happy. Stuff is our fulfillment. Stuff is really the trophy for our patriotism. Stuff is how we show that we are proud Americans. How else would we know that we are happy?

Much of my life has been spent working in, or with, retail. We have all heard about Black Friday, right? This is when our retail businesses are supposed to finally get “out of the red” and “into the black”, referring to the color of ink in our ledger books. Is this the capitalism that we are supposed to be celebrating though? No wonder that we are all scared to death of the looming “fiscal cliff”. What kind of business model would allow us to speculate on reaching the point where we might turn a profit after 11 months of debt? Has the capitalism of our great American culture come to such a level of stupidity that we are allowed to throw good money after bad for most of the year and hope that we will see a return on that “investment” in the final month? No wonder this holiday season seems to be lacking in excitement.

Business models are supposed to be based on sound logic with reasonable and logical projections for leveraging success toward growth and profit. Promises that investment will fall from the sky – if the gods in the heavens are happy with their own successes – seems a little too much like believing that there really is a Santa Claus. Successful business people need to be just a little more realistic in their approach to how they spend their money. Small profits must come before large profits. We need to be able to pay our bills all 12 months of the year. Hard work, honesty, and responsibility are the American ideals that most reflect our capitalist values. We don’t get something for nothing, and we don’t deserve to make money off the backs of our fellow citizens. We live in a land of opportunity where our values are rewarded, right?

My bookselling experiences during the holiday season have always been exceptional. If I didn’t pay my bills throughout the year, my suppliers would not have shipped the books that I need for the holidays in a timely manner and sales would have been dismal. Basically, that’s a sure path to failure. Black Friday is and idiotic idea that is more about tricking consumers into believing that it is time to get out and do their patriotic capitalistic duty. There is just so much time left to spend your money in order to save. Let’s create some pressure, some panic. Do it now! How awful! Ridiculous!

As a bookseller, the final run up to the holidays is always fun. Books are stuff, but not the dumb stuff that has become the plastic trophies of our cultural misconceptions. In fact, books, as stuff, fail miserably. They are invisible to our neighbors and fellow citizens. Yes, they do contribute to a lot of personal clutter, but they also enrich us. They stay on our shelves, in our houses, and in our minds for far longer than most of the other kinds of stuff. Best of all, we can share them and discuss them with our friends and fellow citizens. As gifts, books are fun because they contain the magic of ideas. Shared ideas are shared ideals – they are shared values. So, a bookseller, has a wonderful opportunity to witness the true joy of the season. When people shop for books, they browse a bookstore’s shelves quietly, contemplatively, using intelligence and empathy to choose what will be most appropriate for each on their shopping lists. This is a miracle to observe, and a privilege to be able to help with.

What has happened to the holiday spirit? What kind of Grinch is it that has tossed the garbage into our minds and gummed up our spirits? Have we been so distracted by the noise that surrounds us? The politics? The marketing? The small-minded, mean-spirited, selfishness of a what’s-in-it-for-me approach to defining our American culture? Let’s keep in mind what this holiday season is all about. Let’s celebrate the spirit of our American capitalist ideas and ideals. Let’s shop for gifts that are NOT just the stuff that our politicians and marketers keep sticking under our noses and look inside ourselves for the pathway to empathy with our family, friends, and fellow citizens. Let’s think about what it means to love and to give. Let’s lighten up the burden and enjoy the process of thinking about others. The holidays are not about stuff. They are not about the economics of stuff. They are not about the responsibility for stuff. They are not about the pride of stuff. They are not about the hunger for stuff. These holidays are for reminding ourselves that we care about people – the idea of people, the ideal of people, the value of people. These holidays are for reminding ourselves that we are of value – not because of our stuff, but because of our people – our families, our friends, and the society that we are a part of.


Alright, now let’s get out there and shop! The American economy needs all the help that it can get. Do it with a smile on your face – wish everyone a merry holiday and a happy christmas, be spiritual, be human, be generous. Don’t burden others with your personal baggage, this is the time to think and be positive. Don’t purchase what you can’t afford and pay your bills when they come due so that next year you will begin the holiday season in a better mood.